Friday, December 5, 2014

What Do Men Really Want?





Sherry K. Underwood

First and foremost, you need to understand that men like things simple. They don’t overanalyze every phrase you say looking for a hidden meaning nor do they speak in riddles. In fact, you can be certain that in most cases, when a man says something, that’s exactly what he means in that moment. 


What does this mean for you? It means that men adore women who tell them straight what they feel and don’t feel. So, for example, rather than hinting that you are too tired to go out that evening or hint at the fact that you are upset that he isn’t spending enough time with you, try telling him how you feel. Yes, you run the risk of being rejected, but at the same time you are telling him what you want. And there’s nothing men love more than not having to worry about making a mistake and upsetting you. 


Of course, delivery is important as well. A man will respond much better if your delivery is soft and feminine rather than shouting your head off at him. By being soft and feminine, you completely disarm him because many women use passive aggression as a means of communicating. On the other hand, if you start yelling, all you are doing is basically competing with him and he will start treating you like one of the guys, because guys compete against each other. So, he will either do the “guy thing” with you and withdraw inside himself or simply try to compete with you.


You see, men marry women who make them feel good and because they have such trouble accessing their own emotions, men love being with a woman who becomes a friend to their mind. Now, if he is constantly walking around on eggshells because he doesn’t know how to please you, the last thing he will feel is good. And you can be sure that he'll soon be gone.     

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