Wednesday, December 10, 2014

Men Don’t Want to Compete With Their Women

Amanda Frazier

Men really don’t want to compete with their women. They don’t marry for competition because they get enough of that in other areas of their lives, from work to friends. What they want is someone they can confide in, have fun with and receive a high degree of loyalty.

Men want peace and to please their wife or girlfriend, which is why men avoid conflict in their relationships as best they can. Conflict, for a man, equates to a competition and men are hardwired to do everything they can to win competitions. Since most men don’t want to win over their mate, they will end up withdrawing.

Therefore, if you take a different approach and simply refuse to argue and, instead, use your feelings to disarm him, you will find that you are actually the one in control. Think about when you were a little girl and you wanted to get something from your Dad, what did you do? You used your feelings by making him feel like the best father in the world, which had him wrapped around your little finger. It was all to make his little girl happy and put a smile on your face, because it made him feel good.

The same holds true in relationships and if you can relearn the art of using your feelings, you will find that your man is much more responsive to you. He will want to do things to please and make you happy. There is nothing more important to a man than the knowledge that he can please his woman. 

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